Hey, how are you? Probably not fine cause you are looking for the answer to that question at the top. If he is cheating right now without telling you something’s he need you to change on then you shouldn’t worry about been a reason for him to cheat

Have you ever heard a man say this sentence either to you or any one. “I love you but you give me no choice but to cheat” know this for him to cheat on you is never a choice or option. Then you can ask him this question “no choice in what sense? What was the thing that went wrong you were too scared to talk about with me” its all said then its up to him to answer the question.

Now you are probably wondering or waiting for a specified reason for a man to cheat, in reality there is non and can never be one with a tangible reason expect if you are cheating too..

Note: A man who really loves you wouldn’t make another woman take him away from you.

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     Meaning of toxic : Toxic simply means very unpleasant and causing a lot of harm or unhappiness to your significant other. According to long man dictionary 6th edition.

Let’s talk about toxic relationship in the right way. Those who are in a toxic relationship are basically the cause of there problem why because you don’t know what’s best for yourself before getting into a relationship.

How to not be in a toxic relationship :

1:   Love yourself: have you ever heard the saying “you treat a man how to treat you” if you are not loving yourself enough to reflect on others then you won’t get what you really want for yourself. This is typically the first step to take before getting into a relationship dear. Take it as a priority to love yourself daily.

2:  Set boundaries: you have to set boundaries in the sense that you condemn what you don’t like immediately so it won’t repeat it self again. It really necessary to set boundaries cause it show your standard and value to the level of self esteem and vulnerabilities so therefore setting boundaries should follow.

3: Reciprocate: This is often been misunderstood and misinterpreted by mostly ladies. You have to do what you want from others to others if that makes sense. You can’t sow mango and expect water melon never in history has it happened neither would it happen now. Do not do to people what you can’t accept that’s how applicable it is to relationship.

4: Be selfish too: why do you have to be selfish too? Simply because if you are happy you can make others happy with that energy. I have seen lot of people say I have to make he/she happy first before I can but in reality were they thinking the same thing towards you. Your happiness should come first in some aspect of the relationship.

5: Work on yourself: you do not want to be the reason he/she became toxic towards you. Try working on yourself by been more attentive, loving, affectionate, appreciative, concerned, supportive and so on.

I wish you a better relationship life of less problem and a secured relevant relationship ahead or the other way around. Have a lovely day and a nice weekend.

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